Where do you go?

[LMo]

Where do you guys go if you feel alone? What do you do? When you have noone who will talk to you because they have better things to do than try to make you feel a little better?

This is serious, i dont want "jerk off" or whatever replies...

[AlCaTrAzz]

Church > all

LMK if u want me to hook u up with some contacts.

[DrSp3d]

i play my guitar... or my moosik really loud...

[Dezza Bot]

Go Drivin

[Brainless]

i go on a nice long cruise in ma car

[Robbo]

My Computer Room :)

[PHOENIX_12]

go to my room and turn the music up that or go for a drive

[BR3TT]

MSN/C-S

Listen to tunes and chill

[*Jolt*]

Originally posted by LMo@Oct 3 2005, 08:29 PM
Where do you guys go if you feel alone? What do you do?

89915


Sometimes being alone is better then actually being with the people that apparently dont have time for u. Being alone is under rated. Lets face it people are c-r-a-p, (yer thats right i beat u word censorerer) its sometimes good to not have to talk to anyone at all for an extended period of time.
My advice to u is to find something that makes u happy, find better friends and just enjoy the ups and downs life has to offer.

[fauxpas]

The idea is to live life and have fun with people well enough when things are going good, that when things turn sour, like they always do from time to time, you have support...

Sure solo time is good at times, but venting the c-r-a-p in your head is very important...

[moochie]

I sit in my room and write it all down on paper. That way I can get it out of my head but I don't have to tell anyone.

I try not to drive when i'm like that because generally I have no concern for my safety or the safety of others.

[DrSp3d]

Originally posted by fauxpas@Oct 5 2005, 07:24 AM
The idea is to live life and have fun with people well enough when things are going good, that when things turn sour, like they always do from time to time, you have support...

Sure solo time is good at times, but venting the c-r-a-p in your head is very important...
89972


cant agree more faux

[Evil Kl0wn]

Usually sit out in the sun with Rex, or play my music and swing on the chair. Other times i plan to go to Sydney.

[MR2]

Turn up da toons...or just aimlessly walk around

[blot0]

eat some good food and watch a good movie.. something that will make you laugh..

if all else failes.... kill some stuff... pixles only.

nothing beats slapping the - out of a tiny fairy with a big .off sword (everquest2 :P its like crack i tells ya.. i'm hooked)
or shooting someone in the face (DOD:S)

[MaJ]

I masturbate...

[AlCaTrAzz]

Originally posted by MaJ@Oct 6 2005, 11:54 AM
I masturbate...
90061


i watch webcams on the net ;)

[LMo]

"This is serious, i dont want "jerk off" or whatever replies..."

[DrSp3d]

well no offense elmo but masturbation is a release, certainly helps me relax...

its better than cutting your wrists...

[Robbo]

love to hang a c-r-a-p another good form of release :)

[MaJ]

Originally posted by DrSp3d@Oct 6 2005, 01:52 PM
well no offense elmo but masturbation is a release, certainly helps me relax...

its better than cutting your wrists...
90075


yeh man im serious... im chronic

[LMo]

oh...soz Maj, i thought you were being a smart ass...

Alc, church doesnt work for me...but thanks for the suggestion and help if i needed it...

Im just so down at the moment and its so cliché its p issing me off...

[DrSp3d]

maybe find some new friends... i know its hard but my old friends, when they stop caring, so did i, so i went and found others who made me happy :D

[LMo]

It is hard to find people like me though...who are into the same things i am and arent absolute d ickheads...

[Brainless]

Originally posted by DrSp3d@Oct 7 2005, 05:17 PM
maybe find some new friends... i know its hard but my old friends, when they stop caring, so did i, so i went and found others who made me happy :D
90122



i make u happy all night long big boi ROFL

[DrSp3d]

i remember that night of ecstacy

[moochie]

Originally posted by LMo@Oct 7 2005, 05:31 PM
It is hard to find people like me though...who are into the same things i am and arent absolute d ickheads...
90123


I'm going to give you a tip. Most people are d ickheads. You'll only ever find a few who are actually worth keeping around. So don't complain that you can't find them, just be glad when they show up.

Life is a complete and utter b-itch. But its up to you to do something about it. You are the only person who can change your life for the better (and i say for the better cause there is alot of a-ssholes out there that can make it worse). Try and find something to be positive about. A good friend once told me to sit down everyday and write down one positive thing about myself. It helps. I know what its like to feel depressed and I know what its like to hate yourself. So I wouldn't give you bulls-hit advice Joel. You have to find something that makes you happy, even if its something as simple as making brownies (that makes me happy). And if all else fails come talk to me on msn. I'm always here for ya dude.

[Domo-Kun]

i like you LMo.

i like you too moochie

[mouse]

Originally posted by Domo-Kun@Oct 8 2005, 10:20 PM
i like you LMo.

i like you too moochie
90161


It's your diet. Your probably low in seratonin as a result of not eating right or another chemical imbalance caused by (insert life style here). You can counter natural depression by eating foods that correct your diet, i'd say bananas or pasta (increase seratonin which makes you naturally happy). Seriously, if you live on fast foods expect to be constantly depressed. If your lazy tell a doctor and he can give you some drugs to make you happy, but thats typically treating the symptoms not the cause. You will need to experminemt, different ethic types have slightly different bio-chemical needs. I'd say tho, that if you eat 2 bananas in one day, then the next you will be happy. Keep a diary, note down what you eat and how you feel, after a few weeks you will see a pattern. Don't eat too many tho, or if you do, go for a run and burn off the extra weight you will put on.

Oh and the big one, if your on drugs that affect dopamine/seratonin levels in your brain, then find some that have a different effect. Basically, depression can be a side effect of exctasy.

i'll give you what i always took for a jerk off cliche, "healthy mind healthy body."

When that fails i read a book, some sci fi usually. Look up project guttenberg for free book downloads.

[mouse]

Originally posted by Domo-Kun@Oct 8 2005, 10:20 PM
i like you LMo.

i like you too moochie
90161


Group e-hug

[KrE8oR69]

nothing quite like sitting back with the oll headfones and blasting me head with uber loud music :P.

and then on top of that doing something that i can do. ie coding something and makeing it work, working on car, building stuff, making music, go running, go watch some random flash cartoons (LOL boring life i know, im not really good at many things LOL). be creative and make sure u enjoy doing it cause otherwise it just gets worse :(

well thats my 2 cents (LOL)

ohh and i hear ya DrSpeD out wit the ol in wit the new hehe :P

[AlCaTrAzz]

Originally posted by moochie@Oct 8 2005, 08:12 PM
Most people are d ickheads.
90159


what about the ones that go around f***ing fans?

[MaJ]

Originally posted by moochie@Oct 8 2005, 07:12 PM
I'm going to give you a tip. Most people are d ickheads. You'll only ever find a few who are actually worth keeping around. So don't complain that you can't find them, just be glad when they show up.

Life is a complete and utter b-itch. But its up to you to do something about it. You are the only person who can change your life for the better (and i say for the better cause there is alot of a-ssholes out there that can make it worse). Try and find something to be positive about. A good friend once told me to sit down everyday and write down one positive thing about myself. It helps. I know what its like to feel depressed and I know what its like to hate yourself. So I wouldn't give you bulls-hit advice Joel. You have to find something that makes you happy, even if its something as simple as making brownies (that makes me happy). And if all else fails come talk to me on msn. I'm always here for ya dude.
90159


http://www.thethirteenthstep.com/stfu/die.gif

[moochie]

Those ones just crack me up!!!!!

[KrE8oR69]

Originally posted by moochie@Oct 14 2005, 11:58 PM
Those ones just crack me up!!!!!
90423


are you refering to mwah (me)

[linux_inside v2]

Originally posted by KrE8oR69@Oct 14 2005, 11:01 AM
nothing quite like sitting back with the oll headfones and blasting me head with uber loud music :P.

and then on top of that doing something that i can do. ie coding something and makeing it work, working on car, building stuff, making music, go running, go watch some random flash cartoons (LOL boring life i know, im not really good at many things LOL). be creative and make sure u enjoy doing it cause otherwise it just gets worse :(

well thats my 2 cents (LOL)

ohh and i hear ya DrSpeD out wit the ol in wit the new hehe :P
90401


i agree, coding is good since you get wrapped up in it and it puts you in a different train of thought

Blowing . up in battlefield 2 or Lock-On is also good.

but once i think the best place i went was the top mount ettalong looking over the water and .. but so far the best to date is screaming your head off for about 10 minutes at someone

[AlCaTrAzz]

Originally posted by KrE8oR69@Oct 16 2005, 01:33 AM
are you refering to mwah (me)
90468


nope ;) lets just say spark's flew when i first met moochie... damn those metal fans...

[LMo]

I thought that, as usual, i could vent my lonliness by getting wrapped up in my music and playing something...but atm it just doesnt seem to be enough...games dont do it for me anymore, i get bored way too easily (on all that ive tried) and wanking isnt any fun... Im fresh out of ideas, i cant code well and i cant get into Novels...so i dont know...

[*Jolt*]

If your on the net why not make a friend in another country its always nice, ahaha.
Movies, - comedy drama cartoons whatever. Movies are the best or TV shows. Games are good, i dont know try and go out of ur way and meet someone new, get to know them. Get a penpal or a far away friend someone u can talk to but maybe dont ever have to see. Life is a great thing really, think of how hard it was for u to get here... amongst many many sperm u made it. For however depressed or .ty u feel, theres always someone out there that has it alot worse. Keep that in mind, its pretty easy to change ur circumstances really, why dont u exercise or go to a gym, get a new job? i dont know try anything. Life is ultimately very short so live as much as u possibly can experience alot of things.
Oh well hopefully something changes for u and u start feeling good again. Everyone has their ups and downs uve just got to take the good with the bad the sweet with the sour.

[James]

I dress small children up as elderly leprechauns.

[DrSp3d]

now that was a stupid response....

[James]

Originally posted by DrSp3d@Oct 19 2005, 02:15 PM
now that was a stupid response....
90638



i didnt pay you out for saying you use masturbation as a release


:(

[DrSp3d]

i wasnt joking when i said that....

[James]

...

And you think I was?

[manifesto]

Originally posted by LMo@Oct 16 2005, 08:50 PM
I thought that, as usual, i could vent my lonliness by getting wrapped up in my music and playing something...but atm it just doesnt seem to be enough...games dont do it for me anymore, i get bored way too easily (on all that ive tried) and wanking isnt any fun... Im fresh out of ideas, i cant code well and i cant get into Novels...so i dont know...


im having the exact same problems! beating the living shyte out of a boxing bag helps sometimes... right now im not feeling the best, hsc in progress, completely fudged up my 2nd english exam. lesson learnt - dont listen to music that u no all the lyrics too, they get stuck in ur head to easily :(

[otaku]

hey LMo man thast exactly how im feeling atm
reading this book on philosophy and i think im close to an answer ^^

[LMo]

Well im still feeling like s. , so yeah...

Ive been reading about different religions and such, ive been playing games, screwing around on my guitar and nothing seems to work, talking to people over the net doesnt help too much, it does a little, but in the end i still dont have anyone near me...

...and i got shot down by this chick, which really sucks because i actually like her...

F. im a sad person...

[manifesto]

dude u hav exactly the same issues as me!!! :o much <3

seriously i no quite afew ppl feeling exactly the same its really strange...

[MaJ]

comes down to eating right & exercise, get plenty of both.

[LMo]

I exercise...I walk nearly everyday and i practice Jeet kun do ... i also eat like a horse (its not my fault i dont build up like everyone else >.<)

Im a healthy young lad (besides the smoking and drinking)...

Im socially inept and crave some excitement...also some companionship, I may only be 17 going on 18, but i feel i want to at least have a relationship with a nice girl who likes me for me and who i like...alot...

I just cant seem to find it...

[Hal]

Originally posted by LMo@Oct 20 2005, 10:02 PM
I exercise...I walk nearly everyday and i practice Jeet kun do ... i also eat like a horse (its not my fault i dont build up like everyone else >.<)

Im a healthy young lad (besides the smoking and drinking)...

Im socially inept and crave some excitement...also some companionship, I may only be 17 going on 18, but i feel i want to at least have a relationship with a nice girl who likes me for me and who i like...alot...

I just cant seem to find it...
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You wont find it in your computer room. And if your considering online dating, your past the point of no return. If your 17 and bored, get your P's and go hang out at erina, meet people, get invited to non-gamer parties. Im socially innept and i did it :P

[LMo]

Cant get my P's because i dont have my L's...long story, dont ask...

Im not considering online dating man, thats not for me... I want a girl to hold, i havent had trouble in the past but seem to be now :s

As for friends, i have a couple who seem to be really busy at the moment, thats why i want to find some more, i go out and i try...but most people around here are either drug addicts or complete and utter d ickheads (as said in a previous post). The people that i once thought were my friends (with the exception of those few who are really busy atm) dogged me hardcore and dont talk to me anymore, not that i really care much, its their loss not mine...but now i've less people to talk to than an eskimo in the desert...

[BR3TT]

As Hal mentioned, the only was to really find someone, who obvioulsy is into the same things as you and likes the same things, is by doing the things you like (did that make sense? ;) )

For example,

You like a certain type of music/band.. Go see em' Live.. Meet a few people and have a good time.. Hopefully they will be willing to talk to you about the band and other bands they like?

If you wanna give people your number, but it's too loud, goto:

www.wildkard.com.au

Fuill out the form, and give them out. You might get lucky ;)

That's really all you can do man.. You can goto Westfield/Erina and get a groupie.. But how long is that gonna last?

It may seem pretty obvious, but thats because it is.

Do some of the things you like, and hopefully someone else will be doing the same :)

Best of luck =]

[AlCaTrAzz]

it's interesting, u usually meet ppl when you are doing somthing and not trying to meet som1... case in point, i met the missus when i was doing Air Force Cadets... nothing says i love you like a fake rifle to the back and a spear tackle... gotta love tough love ;)

some idea's for stuff to try...

-concert
-club (if over 18)
-ice skating
-organise a group to goto the movies, but each person has to bring 1 other person from outside the group


ur other option, is to not worry about teh ladies and let em come to you... focus on a completely different aspect of your life, like say a sport, or the gym, or even lanning if your still into it...

[James]

Originally posted by LMo@Oct 21 2005, 12:44 AM
Cant get my P's because i dont have my L's...long story, dont ask...




simple.


go and get your L's then.

[neo_kre8or]

Welll........

Just read through that post...... and hmmmm...... Arnt we all depressed :(

Think everyone goes through this at some point in time. Me i used to cope a fiar bit oflak from the parents, loud music and driving waz my chillout. Then one morning i woke up and decided i didnt really give a fu.ck what people thought anymore and i havent been happier since.

You going through a stressful time or something?

[MaJ]

Originally posted by neo_kre8or@Oct 23 2005, 11:19 PM
Welll........

Just read through that post...... and hmmmm...... Arnt we all depressed :(

Think everyone goes through this at some point in time. Me i used to cope a fiar bit oflak from the parents, loud music and driving waz my chillout. Then one morning i woke up and decided i didnt really give a fu.ck what people thought anymore and i havent been happier since.

You going through a stressful time or something?
90849


seconded...

good philosophy innit?

[Dezza Bot]

Originally posted by neo_kre8or@Oct 23 2005, 11:19 PM
Then one morning i woke up and decided i didnt really give a fu.ck what people thought anymore and i havent been happier since.90849

Yep :)

[AlCaTrAzz]

follow the lifestyle of Teh Alc... grow a goatee ;)

[MaJ]

haha yeh bro, i remember those days. Quality...

http://members.iinet.com.au/~majeztik/stuff/DSC01659.JPG

[DrSp3d]

now thats what i call sexc...

alc since when did u have a goatee, or have u finally reached that stage in your life :P

[neo_kre8or]

who is the babe?

[AlCaTrAzz]

lol xL, i decided about a week ago to grow a goatse ;)

[LMo]

Originally posted by AlCaTrAzz@Oct 24 2005, 12:32 PM
follow the lifestyle of Teh Alc... grow a goatee ;)
90873


Too late bro...I've had one since i was 14 :lol: lol

[WirlWind]

I play my computer. Usually a heavily violent game, or one I can be sadistic on (Im thinking garry's mod. Got bondaged nude alyx? sure d0 ;))

[Dezza Bot]

Postal2 is fun for releiving stress :)

[AlCaTrAzz]

as well as for relieving yourself ;)